Friday, March 26, 2010

March Already?

Where does the time go? Last blog entry was on January 4??? Wow.... Well like I said in a previous post, I suck at this stuff, so take ot for what it is... No offense, but I do this for me, not you... So what's been going on since January 4th... Lets see... My sisters opened a Deli/Grill/Convenience store on Wanaque, New Jersey that is... So if you are in the area, stop in the Nu Moon Cafe for some breakfast or lunch... the French Fries are awesome!!!

I'm still doing the online Radio show on www.tonytradio.com every Wednesday night at 8pm EST... so check that out... I try to focus on independent, local, unsigned bands... the coolest part of what we do is getting the bands to perform live in studio! most bands that come, always give us positive feedback about it... its really cool because we stream the video and audio out on the page so anyone can watch from anywhere in the world! Cool innovative things tony is doing... it has potential to grow... think we just need someone big to come along and see it!

Bonnaroo is only 75 days away... I have to say, I am a little disappointed with the choice of headliners for this yea's festival... don't get me wrong, Stevie Wonder, Dave Matthews Band and Kings Of Leon are all great but come on... Stevie Wonder is legend ... I could understand him playing in the timeslot just before the headliner... and KOL, great band ... but not great enough to headline Bonnaroo... I don't see it... Dave Matthews badn... Ok... he''s huge... I get this... But where in the rock God? No Dead? No Neil Young? I expected some Paul McCartney or Paul Simon or U2 or The Who.... So Headliners I'm not too excited about, but ... WEEZER!!! WEEN !!!! John Fogerty!!! Jeff Beck!!!! The Flaming Lips!!!! Umphrey's McGee!!!! And so many others!! I am more excited for the "NON-HEADLINERS" this year... will be a good time regardless...

What else??? Cant think of anything else at the moment...

If i do I'll just add another post.

Monday, January 4, 2010

Old Year .... New Year.... Yea... And?

So here we are at the beginning of a new year.... Out with the old, in with the new... But Why? Is it really that big of a deal? Its not a new year, its just the next day, that's all, Right?

I don't know. I think that New Year's Eve is just an excuse for people to get shit faced... I call it Amateur night... I try to stay off the roads if possible, and if I do drive, I make sure to stay local and have (or be) a designated driver... DWI just isn't worth it to me... too much to lose if I get a DWI!

So why do people feel compelled to make Resolutions just because the year on the calendar increments up one? I get the whole "trying to make yourself a better person" and all, but why do you have to wait until January first to start? Example: Guy in the Cubicle next me said his Resolution was to quit smoking for the new year, his quit date is January 15... He told me this in late November!!! Having quit smoking 15 months ago, I understand the difficulty in quitting the habit, but this guy has already had 2 heart attacks like 5 years ago and he is still smoking now... we'll see what happens come the 15th...

So after reading My Bonnaroo friend Jen's Blog, I realized that I do the same thing as her! I don't really make resolutions but rather reflect on the past year and realize what I have learned and what I can get out of that... What did I learn this year... Sorry to disappoint, most of what I learned can't be aired out in a blog just because of the Nature of the topic... What are you thinking!?!? No, I didn't learn some new sexual position!...

The stuff that I can talk about:

(A) I learned that in the near future, I will no longer be able to live in New Jersey. I blame Obama, but don't ask me to elaborate cuz I don't want to get into it... we'll leave it at this: one of Obama's plans to help the people really Fucked me over and now, even though I would be considered Middle Class because of how much money I make, I am Broke as Hell!!! And tied into all this, I learned that I am more of a Republican than a democrat even though I Really has political views on both sides.

(B) I learned that Music is what I really want to do as a Job... I've said this before, but I've been doing an Online radio show {(ChrisMek Radio at www.tonytradio.com wednesday night from 8 to 11) <-- nothing like shameless promoting!!!} and Have been having so much fun doing it... I've met some really cool people in the business and some real assholes. Now I don't really want to be a Rock Star, even though that would be cool, I'm thinking more like a Concert promoter, or something along those lines... Looking to the future, I plan on making some contacts and really try to break into the industry, somehow... problem is I get lazy, nervous, and then I don't know how to do it.. Gotta press on.

(C) Another thing I learned, Is that my wife is totally on board with me and all my decisions (well, mostly)... I used to always remind her of my plans because I always thought she wasn't paying attention or she would forget... then she would get pissed at me... I realized this one day when I mentioned Bonnaroo in passing... then, months later she was the one that brought up going again in 2010... She totally knows that I want to go every year until I die! ... Bonnaroo is the place where I had a moment of clarity that changed my life the first year I went... sounds fucked up, but I can't really explain it... It happened again in 2009... I look forward to Bonnaroo 2010 and my wife knows it.. maybe that's not such a great example, but there are so many other ideas I have presented to her that most people might be like "You're fuckin' Crazy!" and she is like "Go for it!"

Anyway, There are tons more things but Maybe I'll vent about them in the future! But For now, Happy New year...

I just proof-read and while reading realized why I seem so grumpy about New Year... The 2 year anniversary of My Mom's death is January 27th... So I associate the month of January with "Bad Memories" ... there's something I can work on for 2010.

Peace! and Once again, Happy New Year